Whom Allah does not love? (1)

"Allah loveth not aggressors." Quraan 2:190

إِنَّ اللَّهَ لاَ يُحِبُّ الْمُعْتَدِينَ
البقرة : ١٩٠

An aggressor is a person who attacks first, that's whom Allah does not love and will very likely be punished later on in the judgment day depends on the kind of attack and its severity as some attacks might not get punished for but Allah still doesn't love who commit them. For example, hurting someone else feelings by being rude is an emotional attack, if you started it out of nowhere, like the other person did nothing wrong to you then that's theoretically considered an aggression which Allah doesn't love even though you won't be punished for because it's only Makrooh (undesirable) not Haram (forbidden). However if you start attacking someone physically then it's something Haram (forbidden) so Allah doesn't love it and will punish you for doing it as well.

How do you get treated when you are beloved? How when you are not? If you ask a person who does love you for a favor he will very likely do it for you, how about asking someone who doesn't love you? If you have been praying a lot for long and your prayers haven't been fulfilled then review yourself a bit and make sure you are not an aggressor because if you are then that could be why your prayers haven't been fulfilled yet even though Allah promised us to fulfill our prayers:

"And your Lord hath said: Pray unto Me and I will answer you" Quraan 40:60

وَقَالَ رَبُّكُمُ ادْعُونِي أَسْتَجِبْ لَكُمْ
غافر : ٦٠